HER THOUGHTS

How To Set Intentions For All Relationships

Now that you have identified bae after cuffing season, what do you do with it?! Like what do you feed It, do you walk it at night?! Glad you asked, you know I’ll never leave my people hanging or withhold intel. Setting intentions in relationships are VITAL for yourself and…
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DEAR SIS: Preparing For “Cuffing Season?”

It’s that time of year again – as a single woman moving from the hot summer to the cold winter, it can be challenging for several reasons. Recently, the term “Cuffing Season” was coined for this time of year, and the rules have been applied. I will walk you…
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DEAR SIS: BATTLE VS. BREAKTHROUGH

Dear Sis,Your biggest battles seem to happen before your breakthrough. How did you know it was happening to you? Breakthroughs Are Coming This subject is so heavy – especially if I can be fully transparent, I feel like I’m in that phase now. So I tend to notice…
HER THOUGHTS

Are You Nice-Nasty?

As I get older and a bit wiser in my approach to negativity, I have been noticing my reaction to a certain form of interaction. It’s called being Nice-Nasty, and it’s levels to it. I’m going to try my BEST to break it down because there’s a lot of…
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DEAR SIS: NETFLIX & CHILL?

Dear Sis, Why do some men INSIST on inviting women to their homes as a first date? First Dates Dear Good Sis, This is a loaded question. It’s several reasons this may happen, and they all stem from one of the US (Women) allowing it. Efforts in dating…
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DEAR SIS: GIVE ME 50 FEET

Dear Sis:Tonight is my first date with a person I’ve met online. It included drinks, food, and a good dose of flirting but nothing more. He seemed charming, but I decided to play it slow. The bill arrives and we both reached for it. He said “My Treat” and picked it…
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DEAR SIS: NEGOTIATION TIPS FOR EQUAL PAY?

Dear Sis, Today, August 3rd is Black Women’s Equal Pay Day. I want to negotiate my salary, but I’m not sure how to go about it. Can you share some tips? Black Women’s Equal Pay Day Sis, first off, let me start by saying BRAVO for even taking the initiative to…
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DEAR SIS: I NEED RECIPROCITY IN MY RELATIONSHIP

Dear Sis, I saw Issa Rae’s tweet last week, and I wanted to get your opinion on it: Listening to Mint Condition’s “Breaking my Heart” and realizing that a lot of music niggas today aren’t dramatic and desperate enough for me.— Issa Rae (@IssaRae)…
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Cheating Vs. The Open Relationship

I’ve been having very interesting conversations with men and women about cheating vs open relationships. Let’s unpack the two a bit. We all know cheating is any form of inappropriate physical and emotional behavior with someone other than your romantic partner.